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Hey ,
I’d like to introduce you to my long-time bud, C — this ass
of a dick dates the sort of girls you only see on magazine covers
- and he shows exactly how he does it here:
Become the Unbreakable

It’s different.
To sum it all up, I’d say that it’s about developing an
instinctive level of confidence, social intuition, and social
skills, or as guys like to call it — game.
I want you to download it, because i know it WILL help you.
I’ve personally seen and met many of C’s students; before
and after — I’ve seen the changes; they way they talk, behave
and EVOLVED… the stories you see on that page are as REAL
as they can ever be.
As I’m sending this out, there are only 41 spots left
(it’s barely 24 hours since he opened it), so don’t say I never
told you about it k?
You don’t want to miss this… really.
Become the Unbreakable
Talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
DK

Hi ,
o Romance Her – How PROS Do It
A single woman, who hasn’t been completely frustrated in her
experiences with men and who is not excessively jaded, craves
a romantic experience and dreams about meeting that guy who
will bring romance into her life.
However, there is a lot of confusion about what being romantic
with women means, and this issue certain deserves
clarification.
The notion of romance has significantly evolved during the
past few generations.
There is at least one major, important difference between what
it meant to be romantic 10 or 20 years ago and between what
being a romantic guy means today.
Today, any reasonably intelligent woman with some dating
experience will perceive many of the typically considered
romantic things as cheesy and cliche.
Long walks on the beach and looking at the stars in the evening
used to be considered some of the most romantic activities.
Today, however, after watching dozens of romantic movies and
soap operas, many women would consider such activities to be
cheesy, cliche and lacking in creativity.
Long walks on the beach is used more as a joke nowdays than
as a romantic fantasy that it used to be.
This means that to come across as a fun and romantic guy today,
you must do things that are different and unique from what a
woman used to experiencing and hearing from others.
Here are few tips on how you can come across as a more
romantic guy:
1. First, you must remember that whether you come across as
romantic DEPENDS MUCH MORE ON WHETHER THE GIRL LIKES YOU
OR NOT and it depends much LESS on the activity that both
of you are engaged in.
If she likes you already, it won’t really matter how you spend
your time together. A simple cup of coffee with you at a
grungy coffee shop is going to be much more romantic than fine
dining with a guy who she finds boring.
So, focus on being a more INTERESTING COMPANY, and many aspects
of being romantic will take care of themselves.
2. Don’t try to be romantic too early. There is no reason to
wear a suit, or bring flowers and candy on a first date. Romantic
gestures are only special and significant if they come from a
guy who means something to a woman.
Therefore, you should hold off on doing special things until
such time that you become at least somewhat special to each
other.
Fine dining on a first date is likely to do nothing but make
the two people who don’t know each other very well to feel
awkward in a stuffy environment.
On the other hand, a special dinner celebrating an anniversary
or another even special to both dating partners will be a
very romantic experience.
3. Be unpredictable. Being unique and different can be simple
and very inexpensive. Here are just a few ideas:
a. Burn a CD of some rare kind of tribal/loungy music, and
make a simple voice dedication to her at the beginning of that
CD, saying something like: I don’t know much about your taste
in music, but something tells me that you will like it.
You can be sure that she probably never received a gift like
that, and she will be thrilled with this kind of surprise,
uniquely tailored to her.
b. Don’t wait for the right and appropriate time to kiss
the girl.
If you feel that she likes you and she is attracted to you,
catch her by surprise, lean over and grab her gently and
kiss her.
c. It’s easier to be romantic in a quiet, secluded environment
than in a crowded place. You are not likely to come across as
romantic hanging out downtown on your first date or going to a
farmers market.
Going to a park or a small cafe where the two of you will be
among the very few other people will make your interaction
much more compelling.
d. Be random and unpredictable in your actions and conversation.
A conversation with a woman is not an English class composition.
You don’t need to use smooth transitions or introductions.
Talk about science, politics, math, Britney Spears, the latest
movie you saw, fashion, your favorite animals, basketball…
ask her random questions and notice random things around you.
Don’t feel that you have to follow a certain order in the way
you go about getting to know her. There is no rule that
says that you should ask a girl how many siblings she has and
where her family is from, before you find out what her
favorite ice cream flavor is.
e. Buy a cup of coffee and a snack and walk/drive to some nice
square or park. If she wants to see on the bench, and it’s a
warm day, tell her no way and bring her to sit down on the
grass, as this will be far more intimate and unconventional.
f. And again, above all – be interesting. Nothing boring
should come out of your mouth. If the girl is smart,
open-minded and easy going, she will enjoy banter and sarcasm,
which means that you have no excuse to not be funny, witty
and interesting. So, if she asks you how long you have been
single, don’t simply answer that question.
Tell her with a very serious face and tone of voice that you
are married but you are looking for a girlfriend, and she
will surely laugh at this kind of smart-ass come back.
4. Maintain Eye Contact – there can be no romance between
the two, if they don’t look into each other’s eyes. This
doesn’t mean that you have to stare in the woman’s eyes at
all times, but you should make sure certainly maintain eye
contact when you talk to her, as your eyes might tell her
a better story about who you are and how you feel about her
than your words.
And, if the girl is very shy and she avoids eye contact,
tease her about it and ask her: You are not looking me in
the eyes… am I that ugly?
I’ll take to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David K

Hey ,
The fact is that women want to get banged by the bbs.
It might not sit well with you, but it’s not like this is
some secret k.
You know the story…
You’ve been talking to some chick for a half-hour at some bar or
club, and out of nowhere comes an ass right into your set and
starts hitting on her.
In 2 minutes, she walks off with him, looking back at you with I’m
sorry in her eyes.
And you just know this guy is going to bang the shit outta her
later that night…
What makes it worse?
She wasn’t apologizing TO you.
She felt sorry FOR you.
Or maybe you’ve stayed on the phone for hours and hours with a girl
you really (really!) wanted – and all she does is complain about
her boyfriend to you – but every time you see her, she’s back
with that dip-shit again…
OR maybe you’ve been wining and dining some girl for weeks, months
(years even!) only to find out that she jumped into bed with
some guy she met at a club 3 days before.
The time you spent, the money… oh the money… how it just got
flushed down the toilet.
OR maybe you’re stuck in the (uugh!) friend’s zone with a woman
you fell DEEPLY for – only to find out she’s dating a married guy.
WTF is wrong with the world these days???!!
If you’re sick of this shit, I think you need an instant injection
of this in your life:
How Bad Boys Attract Women

PS – I’ve seen guys who have turned pompous exotic, beautiful women
into *mad* stalkers using it — it’s fun turning tables around, yes
– but when they’re a lil too over with it — NOT funny.
TRUE STORY: I had a friend who woke up one morning with his girl
sleeping on his doorstep. She had bought him his breakfast and it
was sitting in a bag next to her while she snored.
Don’t say I didn’t warn you.
Download it here if you want:
How Bad Boys Attract Women
Talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David K

Hi ,
I love relationships.
Getting close, personal, and sexy with another human being truly
is what makes the world go ’round – and not just for the
euphoria and butterflies that go with them.
If anyone has ever been a part of one, regardless of seriousness,
then they’re quite familiar with the facet of them that has been
the inspiration for much of that euphoria and the majority of
the romantic poetry that has been written over the years:
the ‘honeymoon’ phase.
In that beautiful stretch of time, everything is right with
the world.
The air smells sweeter, birds are chirping a bit more than usual,
and everything we do is enhanced in ways we never thought
possible. We are in that moment, the very best person we can
possibly be. It’s truly a gift, and one of the reasons why so
many of us want to find love in the first place.
As with most good things in life, there’s a catch, and that
beautiful symphony of emotion must come to an end. For some,
the loss of this gift is too much to bear and they simply walk
away. I know I spent a good part of my adult life hopping from
honeymoon phase to honeymoon phase(s).
For others, that thing they caught a glimpse of is so amazing
that they’re remiss to let it go without a fight. For those
in that category, the result is either a struggle that ends
in a messy breakup, or the finding of someone we decide to
spend the rest of our life with – with the vast majority of us
falling into the former category, whether or not marriage is
involved.
So what the hell happened?
Where did the love go?
Some individuals hypothesize that it’s at the twilight of
the honeymoon phase that the ’shine’ begins to wear off of
the other person and we see them as they really are, flaws
and all. This supposedly triggers our doubts, and the palace
of ivory begins to crumble.
I’m here to say that while that hypothesis does hold some weight,
it’s really not at the heart of what happens.
To put it simply, it’s not the others person’s faults that
come starkly into focus in this darkest of hours, it’s OUR OWN.
Unbreakable Confidence and Game

To explain my point, I’d like to begin with a little
relationship/attraction meta-theory that’s been gathering steam
in my brain over the past year or so.
I firmly believe that we are attracted to what we’re attracted
to because that particular thing happens to be what will most
directly cause us to go/grow where and how we need to at that
particular point in time, and I mean that in the most Taoist
of interpretations.
To use a fairly colorful example to explain this point, let’s
say that at a given moment in someones life, he or she is drawn
to the notion of sleeping with a bunch of people.
This may be caused by some deeply rooted insecurities, or by
any other number of reasons, but at that moment, that particular
course of action is the best means for that individual to begin
the journey that will ultimately end in overcoming whatever
obstacles stand in his or way to personal realization and
fulfillment.
Notice that this theory includes all things that many people
could consider unhealthy or negative. While this may be the
case in the short term, I believe that these actions are
nevertheless the best path for a person to take.
Even if it feels like you’re swimming upstream, the current is
always carrying you in the right direction.
Attraction to other human being provide us the strongest and
most direct path to this PERSONAL GROWTH, and therein lies the
reason why we are so crazily drawn to other people.
I firmly believe that without women, men would end up wallowing
in some gutter in the most depressing scenario imaginable, and
vice-versa – with the mechanism through which this happens
being one of the most brilliantly designed systems in the world.
You can never know who you’re going to be attracted to, and to
what degree you’ll be attracted to them, but rest assured,
there’s a method to that madness.
Whoever that person happens to be, take comfort in the fact that
you are placed on each other’s journeys to take you both where
you need to go.
When it really happens – when you’re ready for it to happen –
it hits you like a ton of bricks, and I’m certainly not the
first to describe it in this way.
As we’ve already mentioned, that honeymoon phase hits, and you
are suddenly faced with a more perfect version of yourself than
you ever thought possible.
Your work goes extremely well, all of the other relationships in
your life flourish, and you’re insanely open to anything and
everything – you also may happen to notice that other members
of the opposite sex can’t keep their eyes off of you.
As we’ve also mentioned though, this inevitably comes to an end
and we’re now sitting face to face with that same person we
were before all of this started. We are reminded, after a
brief glimpse of heaven, that we’re still the same person with
the same flaws that we were before love crossed our paths.
Because these two versions of ourself, the ideal and the
reality, are now forced to stare each other down face to face,
this point can be especially troubling.
We being to feel depression-like withdrawals and other aspects
of our life begin to suffer, including work and other
relationships.
Our openness is replaced by jealousy – and those fears and
insecurities that this attraction was put in our place to
overcome begin to show their ugly head.
As strange as it sounds, this is a point to celebrate. Up until
now, these personal demons remained for the most part under
the surface, but through this beautiful process, they are now
brought to some level of light where they can actually be fought.
When faced with this situation, a person will always go in one
of three directions.
1. They simply cannot bear the situation at this time, and
decide to walk away. Maybe they’ll tell themselves that their
other half simply wasn’t worth it or too flawed for them – and
maybe they are – but they choose to wait until the next time
attraction hits them over the head; a time when they’re better
prepared to deal with their roadblocks through more experiences
such as these.
2. They decide to continue the relationship, and use as much
‘warm fuzzies’ as they can muster to cover up the glaring issues.
They’ll turn a blind eye to the unearthed feelings and hold the
other person as tightly as possible with hopes that with
enough “love” the shadows will eventually be banished.
Well those shadows don’t simply go away on their own, and the
result of this course of action is the all too familiar pattern
of love/hate that so many of today’s relationships find
themselves falling into.
The periodic episodes of hot and cold continue to escalate
until a final blowup/breakup occurs, leaving both parties
devastated in their wake.
The silver lining is that this path will ultimately lead to a GOOD
amount of personal growth after said blowup. The negative of
course is that it’s often not without the cost of most of one’s
mental and emotional health along the way.
3. This final path is the path is the most difficult to walk,
yet is the one that leads to the GREATEST amount of ultimate
personal growth and fulfillment.
Although it is the path of greatest resistance, some couple
are actually able to use this opportunity to face their own
personal demons, the ones that this attraction was meant to
uncover in the first place, and constructively work through
them together.
This is often not accomplished without greater or lesser
degrees of hardship, and it is rare that anyone can take on
this type of endeavor without making some missteps along the
way.
It is, however the straightest and most powerful path to ultimate
happiness that one can undertake.
At this point I must stress that there is NO one path that
is any better or worse than another. There is only what is
best for a PARTICULAR person at a PARTICULAR time.
If you know in your heart that someone is not the person to
take you to the next level in a particular situation, then
trying to tell yourself otherwise will only SLOW your pace.
So why is it again that we should even bother with all of this
in the first place? Why is this natural inborn order so
wonderful to begin with?
The answer to these questions lies in the honeymoon phase that
began our journey. The truth is that the person that you caught
a fleeting glimpse of in that phase wasn’t merely a figment of
your imagination.
Although the vast majority of us are weighed down by not so
positive experiences throughout our lives, primarily in our
younger and most vulnerable years, we all have the potential
inside of us to permanently become our best self, the version
of our self that we were able to catch a glimpse of during
the initial honeymoon phase.
That version of yourself is who you TRULY are, that is the you
who can accomplish anything you desire – unbridled of your
fears – and that is the you who can limitlessly impact the
lives of everyone you encounter and the world in an exceedingly
positive way.
No matter where you are and where you’ve been, take comfort
in the fact that it has all happened for a VERY good reason.
Side Note: This kind of thing is a common problem most guys tend
to have at one point or another in their lives… which has
quite a bit to do with problems of healthy personal boundaries
and other deeper psychological concepts. If you are interested
in learning how to fix this deeper stuff, then you
should go and take a look at this:
Unbreakable Confidence and Game

In it you’ll go through all of the things that you need to know
in order to be successful with women… from theory to
practice… from nuts to bolts… from meeting to dating to
getting physical.
All of it.
Enjoy!
Your Friend,
David K

Hi ,
I want you to watch this *FREE* webinar right now before it’s
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Pandora Box Live Webinar
Have you ever been talking to a woman and wondered what the
hell she’s thinking? Women are unpredictable, and reading her
body language BARELY reveals her surface emotions… Let alone
what she’s thinking way back in the depths of her mind.
So it may seem like meeting and dating women requires a lot
of guess work, even with the BEST techniques! You have to
*guess* whether she likes compliments or not…
You have to *guess* whether she likes to go out and party or
stay in and snuggle…
You have to *guess* what her perfect first date is, and HOPE
that you didn’t screw it up.
She’ll smile and play along, and at the end of the night…
Whether you get a first kiss – or come up to her place –
depends on whether you *guessed* right, or WRONG.
Well, what if you could sneak a peek inside her diary, and
read her secret thoughts?
Watch this *FREE* webinar to know EXACTLY what’s on her
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It’s GOOOOOD.
And it WILL help you get her.
At last count, there are close to 230,000+ guys watching this
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I’ll see you on the inside.
Your Friend,
DK