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How to Pick Up Women at Bars

Bars offer a variety of women to hit on. But if you don’t know what you’re doing, you’ll end up leaving empty handed .

First of all, you have to bear in mind that usually there are more men at bars then women – which doesn’t make picking up women easier.

With that in mind, your best chances of picking up women at bars are
during off-peak hours. Of course the problem with that – odds are the really hot chicks won’t be there…only the plain janes. Or worse, butter faces (she’s nice…oh, but her face!)

On the other hand, if you go during peak hours at a bar, then you’re vying for hot women’s attention along with all the other guys, who still outnumber women at the bar anyway.

How do we fix this problem?

For starters, if you’re going to meet women during peak hours, it’s best to set yourself above the other guys by being different. The use of props can help get a women’s attention in these cases. This could be done by wearing something like a glow stick, a cool chic cap, or have an exotic bird on your shoulder (if the bar will even allow that!). All three are great conversation starters.

Another solution is to enlist the help of a wingman to help you meet women in bars. Wingmen can help in a number of ways. For instance, they can go up women you’re interested in and “screen them out” to make sure they’re 1.) sane and 2.) available. Wingmen can also talk you up to women you’re interested in…in a casual way of course (because you don’t want it to seem like they just went up to them with the sole purpose of fixing you up. It would be more like, ‘Hey you know what…I think you’d get along with a buddy of mine.”
Wingmen are also good for deflecting men away from the object of your desire by distracting them: speaking to them themselves, buying them a drink, or simply telling them that you guys are already together.

Now let’s go on to interacting with women at bars.

In order to get somewhere with a woman at a bar, you have to have the right look and attitude. You also have to be quick and work quickly. A woman at a bar will probably size you up within 5 minutes. If you’re not talking game with a woman within 5 minutes, you’ll find her excusing herself to go find another guy who can chum her up better.

Things to talk about with a woman at a bar: what you guys will be doing afterwards when you leave, about how pathetic all the other guys at the bar are, if she knows how to make you good drinks for later etc.

Things not to talk abut with woman at a bar: the weather, your job, her job, where she’s from, why she’s there, how much she costs for the hour etc.

Your body language should exude total confidence: as if you’ve spoken to many women at bars before. If you look down, don’t give her eye contact, and don’t project your voice, you’ll give her the impression that you’re just another dork.

A great way to ante up the sexual tension at a bar is to not only challenge a woman to a round of pool or darts but tell her that you’ll easily beat her. This does wonders as far as chemistry.

Let’s switch gears and talk about how to get a woman’s attention in a bar in the first place.

First of all, if you look at her and she looks at you, don’t be a dummy and just stand there! Her staring at you is an invitation to go over and “feel her out” (as in size her up, not literally feel her up). If you can’t get her attention by looking at her, try doing something that will get her attention: like talking to other girls. Women like men who are already in demand.

And if worse comes to worse and you leave a bar empty handed, you can always go home and jump on a site like SexSearch and hook up with hot women there!